Add trashcan that keeps recently updated lists after bucket deletion.
All caches were deleted once a bucket was deleted, so caches still running would report errors. Now they are canceled.
Fix `.minio.sys` not being transient.
* Fix caches having EOF marked as a failure.
* Simplify cache updates.
* Provide context for checkMetacacheState failures.
* Log 499 when the client disconnects.
Design: https://gist.github.com/klauspost/025c09b48ed4a1293c917cecfabdf21c
Gist of improvements:
* Cross-server caching and listing will use the same data across servers and requests.
* Lists can be arbitrarily resumed at a constant speed.
* Metadata for all files scanned is stored for streaming retrieval.
* The existing bloom filters controlled by the crawler is used for validating caches.
* Concurrent requests for the same data (or parts of it) will not spawn additional walkers.
* Listing a subdirectory of an existing recursive cache will use the cache.
* All listing operations are fully streamable so the number of objects in a bucket no
longer dictates the amount of memory.
* Listings can be handled by any server within the cluster.
* Caches are cleaned up when out of date or superseded by a more recent one.
