fix: add lock ownership to expire locks (#10571)

- Add owner information for expiry, locking, unlocking a resource
- TopLocks returns now locks in quorum by default, provides
  a way to capture stale locks as well with `?stale=true`
- Simplify the quorum handling for locks to avoid from storage
  class, because there were challenges to make it consistent
  across all situations.
- And other tiny simplifications to reset locks.

pkg/dsync/rpc-client-interface.go

@@ -29,6 +29,10 @@ type LockArgs struct {
 	// Source contains the line number, function and file name of the code
 	// on the client node that requested the lock.
 	Source string
+
+	// Owner represents unique ID for this instance, an owner who originally requested
+	// the locked resource, useful primarily in figuring our stale locks.
+	Owner string
 }
 
 // NetLocker is dsync compatible locker interface.