fix: add lock ownership to expire locks (#10571)

- Add owner information for expiry, locking, unlocking a resource
- TopLocks returns now locks in quorum by default, provides
  a way to capture stale locks as well with `?stale=true`
- Simplify the quorum handling for locks to avoid from storage
  class, because there were challenges to make it consistent
  across all situations.
- And other tiny simplifications to reset locks.

cmd/erasure.go

@@ -52,7 +52,7 @@ type erasureObjects struct {
 	getDisks func() []StorageAPI
 
 	// getLockers returns list of remote and local lockers.
-	getLockers func() []dsync.NetLocker
+	getLockers func() ([]dsync.NetLocker, string)
 
 	// getEndpoints returns list of endpoint strings belonging this set.
 	// some may be local and some remote.