feat: disable Parquet by default (breaking change) (#9920)

I have built a fuzz test and it crashes heavily in seconds and will OOM shortly after.
It seems like supporting Parquet is basically a completely open way to crash the 
server if you can upload a file and run s3 select on it.

Until Parquet is more hardened it is DISABLED by default since hostile 
crafted input can easily crash the server.

If you are in a controlled environment where it is safe to assume no hostile
content can be uploaded to your cluster you can safely enable Parquet.

To enable Parquet set the environment variable `MINIO_API_SELECT_PARQUET=on`
while starting the MinIO server.

Furthermore, we guard parquet by recover functions.

pkg/s3select/select_test.go

@@ -925,6 +925,8 @@ func TestJSONInput(t *testing.T) {
 }
 
 func TestParquetInput(t *testing.T) {
+	os.Setenv("MINIO_API_SELECT_PARQUET", "on")
+	defer os.Setenv("MINIO_API_SELECT_PARQUET", "off")
 
 	var testTable = []struct {
 		requestXML     []byte