ListObjects Metadata Caching (#10648)

Design: https://gist.github.com/klauspost/025c09b48ed4a1293c917cecfabdf21c

Gist of improvements:

* Cross-server caching and listing will use the same data across servers and requests.
* Lists can be arbitrarily resumed at a constant speed.
* Metadata for all files scanned is stored for streaming retrieval.
* The existing bloom filters controlled by the crawler is used for validating caches.
* Concurrent requests for the same data (or parts of it) will not spawn additional walkers.
* Listing a subdirectory of an existing recursive cache will use the cache.
* All listing operations are fully streamable so the number of objects in a bucket no 
  longer dictates the amount of memory.
* Listings can be handled by any server within the cluster.
* Caches are cleaned up when out of date or superseded by a more recent one.

cmd/erasure-multipart.go

@@ -81,7 +81,7 @@ func (er erasureObjects) removeObjectPart(bucket, object, uploadID, dataDir stri
 			// Ignoring failure to remove parts that weren't present in CompleteMultipartUpload
 			// requests. xl.meta is the authoritative source of truth on which parts constitute
 			// the object. The presence of parts that don't belong in the object doesn't affect correctness.
-			_ = storageDisks[index].DeleteFile(context.TODO(), minioMetaMultipartBucket, curpartPath)
+			_ = storageDisks[index].Delete(context.TODO(), minioMetaMultipartBucket, curpartPath, false)
 			return nil
 		}, index)
 	}