Harden internode DeadlineConn (#20631)

Since DeadlineConn would send deadline updates directly upstream,
it would race with Read/Write operations. The stdlib will perform a read, 
but do an async SetReadDeadLine(unix(1)) to cancel the Read in 
`abortPendingRead`. In this case, the Read may override the 
deadline intended to cancel the read.

Stop updating deadlines if a deadline in the past is seen and when Close is called. 
A mutex now protects all upstream deadline calls to avoid races. 

This should fix the short-term buildup of...

```
365 @ 0x44112e 0x4756b9 0x475699 0x483525 0x732286 0x737407 0x73816b 0x479601
#	0x475698	sync.runtime_notifyListWait+0x138		runtime/sema.go:569
#	0x483524	sync.(*Cond).Wait+0x84				sync/cond.go:70
#	0x732285	net/http.(*connReader).abortPendingRead+0xa5	net/http/server.go:729
#	0x737406	net/http.(*response).finishRequest+0x86		net/http/server.go:1676
#	0x73816a	net/http.(*conn).serve+0x62a			net/http/server.go:2050
```

AFAICT Only affects internode calls that create a connection (non-grid).

internal/deadlineconn/deadlineconn.go

@@ -19,10 +19,14 @@
 package deadlineconn
 
 import (
+	"context"
 	"net"
+	"sync"
+	"sync/atomic"
 	"time"
 )
 
+// updateInterval is the minimum time between deadline updates.
 const updateInterval = 250 * time.Millisecond
 
 // DeadlineConn - is a generic stream-oriented network connection supporting buffered reader and read/write timeout.
@@ -32,31 +36,53 @@ type DeadlineConn struct {
 	readSetAt               time.Time
 	writeDeadline           time.Duration // sets the write deadline on a connection.
 	writeSetAt              time.Time
+	abortReads, abortWrites atomic.Bool // A deadline was set to indicate caller wanted the conn to time out.
+	mu                      sync.Mutex
 }
 
 // Sets read deadline
 func (c *DeadlineConn) setReadDeadline() {
-	if c.readDeadline > 0 {
+	// Do not set a Read deadline, if upstream wants to cancel all reads.
+	if c.readDeadline <= 0 || c.abortReads.Load() {
+		return
+	}
+
+	c.mu.Lock()
+	defer c.mu.Unlock()
+	if c.abortReads.Load() {
+		return
+	}
+
 	now := time.Now()
 	if now.Sub(c.readSetAt) > updateInterval {
 		c.Conn.SetReadDeadline(now.Add(c.readDeadline + updateInterval))
 		c.readSetAt = now
 	}
-	}
 }
 
 func (c *DeadlineConn) setWriteDeadline() {
-	if c.writeDeadline > 0 {
+	// Do not set a Write deadline, if upstream wants to cancel all reads.
+	if c.writeDeadline <= 0 || c.abortWrites.Load() {
+		return
+	}
+
+	c.mu.Lock()
+	defer c.mu.Unlock()
+	if c.abortWrites.Load() {
+		return
+	}
 	now := time.Now()
 	if now.Sub(c.writeSetAt) > updateInterval {
 		c.Conn.SetWriteDeadline(now.Add(c.writeDeadline + updateInterval))
 		c.writeSetAt = now
 	}
-	}
 }
 
 // Read - reads data from the connection using wrapped buffered reader.
 func (c *DeadlineConn) Read(b []byte) (n int, err error) {
+	if c.abortReads.Load() {
+		return 0, context.DeadlineExceeded
+	}
 	c.setReadDeadline()
 	n, err = c.Conn.Read(b)
 	return n, err
@@ -64,11 +90,89 @@ func (c *DeadlineConn) Read(b []byte) (n int, err error) {
 
 // Write - writes data to the connection.
 func (c *DeadlineConn) Write(b []byte) (n int, err error) {
+	if c.abortWrites.Load() {
+		return 0, context.DeadlineExceeded
+	}
 	c.setWriteDeadline()
 	n, err = c.Conn.Write(b)
 	return n, err
 }
 
+// SetDeadline will set the deadline for reads and writes.
+// A zero value for t means I/O operations will not time out.
+func (c *DeadlineConn) SetDeadline(t time.Time) error {
+	c.mu.Lock()
+	defer c.mu.Unlock()
+	if t.IsZero() {
+		var err error
+		if c.readDeadline == 0 {
+			err = c.Conn.SetReadDeadline(t)
+		}
+		if c.writeDeadline == 0 {
+			if wErr := c.Conn.SetWriteDeadline(t); wErr != nil {
+				return wErr
+			}
+		}
+		c.abortReads.Store(false)
+		c.abortWrites.Store(false)
+		return err
+	}
+	// If upstream sets a deadline in the past, assume it wants to abort reads/writes.
+	if time.Until(t) < 0 {
+		c.abortReads.Store(true)
+		c.abortWrites.Store(true)
+		return c.Conn.SetDeadline(t)
+	}
+
+	c.abortReads.Store(false)
+	c.abortWrites.Store(false)
+	c.readSetAt = time.Now()
+	c.writeSetAt = time.Now()
+	return c.Conn.SetDeadline(t)
+}
+
+// SetReadDeadline sets the deadline for future Read calls
+// and any currently-blocked Read call.
+// A zero value for t means Read will not time out.
+func (c *DeadlineConn) SetReadDeadline(t time.Time) error {
+	if t.IsZero() && c.readDeadline != 0 {
+		c.abortReads.Store(false)
+		// Keep the deadline we want.
+		return nil
+	}
+
+	c.mu.Lock()
+	defer c.mu.Unlock()
+	c.abortReads.Store(time.Until(t) < 0)
+	c.readSetAt = time.Now()
+	return c.Conn.SetReadDeadline(t)
+}
+
+// SetWriteDeadline sets the deadline for future Write calls
+// and any currently-blocked Write call.
+// Even if write times out, it may return n > 0, indicating that
+// some of the data was successfully written.
+// A zero value for t means Write will not time out.
+func (c *DeadlineConn) SetWriteDeadline(t time.Time) error {
+	if t.IsZero() && c.writeDeadline != 0 {
+		c.abortWrites.Store(false)
+		// Keep the deadline we want.
+		return nil
+	}
+	c.mu.Lock()
+	defer c.mu.Unlock()
+	c.abortWrites.Store(time.Until(t) < 0)
+	c.writeSetAt = time.Now()
+	return c.Conn.SetWriteDeadline(t)
+}
+
+// Close wraps conn.Close and stops sending deadline updates.
+func (c *DeadlineConn) Close() error {
+	c.abortReads.Store(true)
+	c.abortWrites.Store(true)
+	return c.Conn.Close()
+}
+
 // WithReadDeadline sets a new read side net.Conn deadline.
 func (c *DeadlineConn) WithReadDeadline(d time.Duration) *DeadlineConn {
 	c.readDeadline = d

internal/deadlineconn/deadlineconn_test.go

@@ -19,6 +19,7 @@ package deadlineconn
 
 import (
 	"bufio"
+	"fmt"
 	"io"
 	"net"
 	"sync"
@@ -115,3 +116,77 @@ func TestBuffConnReadTimeout(t *testing.T) {
 
 	wg.Wait()
 }
+
+// Test deadlineconn handles read timeout properly by reading two messages beyond deadline.
+func TestBuffConnReadCheckTimeout(t *testing.T) {
+	l, err := net.Listen("tcp", "localhost:0")
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("unable to create listener. %v", err)
+	}
+	defer l.Close()
+	serverAddr := l.Addr().String()
+
+	tcpListener, ok := l.(*net.TCPListener)
+	if !ok {
+		t.Fatalf("failed to assert to net.TCPListener")
+	}
+	var cerr error
+	var wg sync.WaitGroup
+	wg.Add(1)
+	go func() {
+		defer wg.Done()
+
+		tcpConn, terr := tcpListener.AcceptTCP()
+		if terr != nil {
+			cerr = fmt.Errorf("failed to accept new connection. %v", terr)
+			return
+		}
+		deadlineconn := New(tcpConn)
+		deadlineconn.WithReadDeadline(time.Second)
+		deadlineconn.WithWriteDeadline(time.Second)
+		defer deadlineconn.Close()
+
+		// Read a line
+		b := make([]byte, 12)
+		_, terr = deadlineconn.Read(b)
+		if terr != nil {
+			cerr = fmt.Errorf("failed to read from client. %v", terr)
+			return
+		}
+		received := string(b)
+		if received != "message one\n" {
+			cerr = fmt.Errorf(`server: expected: "message one\n", got: %v`, received)
+			return
+		}
+
+		// Set a deadline in the past to indicate we want the next read to fail.
+		// Ensure we don't override it on read.
+		deadlineconn.SetReadDeadline(time.Unix(1, 0))
+
+		// Be sure to exceed update interval
+		time.Sleep(updateInterval * 2)
+
+		_, terr = deadlineconn.Read(b)
+		if terr == nil {
+			cerr = fmt.Errorf("could read from client, expected error, got %v", terr)
+			return
+		}
+	}()
+
+	c, err := net.Dial("tcp", serverAddr)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("unable to connect to server. %v", err)
+	}
+	defer c.Close()
+
+	_, err = io.WriteString(c, "message one\n")
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("failed to write to server. %v", err)
+	}
+	_, _ = io.WriteString(c, "message two\n")
+
+	wg.Wait()
+	if cerr != nil {
+		t.Fatal(cerr)
+	}
+}